Reply promptly to his letter.
Give your salaams and thank him for writing to you.
Answer his questions.
Ask your own questions (especially important ones) - they will encourage him to share.
Tell him what kind of husband and marriage you are seeking.
Communicate appropriate next steps (another form of communication, talking to your parents, visiting, etc.) and your timetable (if you have one).
Thank him again for writing to you.
Logistical Tips For Postal Mail
Double check the address.
Include a return address.
Use your best handwriting or type the letter.
Keep a copy of the letter, in case you have to resend it or have written to more than one man.
Use registered mail. It costs more, but at least then you will know that he has received it.
You may want to protect the letter contents by wrapping them in plastic before putting them in the envelope.
You may want to include an additional photograph of yourself - or you with your family and friends.
Logistical Tips For E-mail
Open a free e-mail account specifically for marriage correspondence.
Double check the address before you hit send.
Create an interesting and relevant subject line.
Check your spelling and grammar before you hit send.
Save your sent e-mail as well as the correspondence in your Inbox.
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