Asks for money and/or gifts.
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Does not have a similar attitude towards major issues.
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Her ideal husband is different from the kind of husband you want to be.
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Her friends and/or family do not share your values.
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Her friends and relatives do not seem to like you.
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Will not/does not talk about her family and friends.
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Does not seem to treat her own family members and friends well.
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Makes negative comments about or is rude to your family and friends.
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Is very negative.
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Is consistently disdainful of your interests and beliefs.
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Is often talking negatively about others - how they are envious of her, how they want to drag her down, etc.
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Does not show much interest in your life.
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Knows you have a child, but shows no interest in your child.
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She knowingly asks for a mahr far beyond your means to provide.
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She and/or her relatives are too focused on your financial situation.
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She and/or her relatives talk too much about money, material goods, and status.
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Does not live or work where she says she does.
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Details she has told you about herself do not add up.
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Will not provide you with references.
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Cannot legally marry you.
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Compares you to other men.
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You are the only one making an effort or changing your schedule to stay in touch.
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Has had previous problems with drugs, alcohol and/or gambling.
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Has been sexually promiscuous.
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Is a workaholic.
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Has a criminal past.
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Will not send you additional photos.
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Seems to be in a big hurry to get married.
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