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Warning Signs


Here are some behaviors we think are warning signs. If you encounter them with a woman you are communicating with for marriage you should seriously re-evaluate the situation.

Asks for money and/or gifts.
Does not have a similar attitude towards major issues.

Her ideal husband is different from the kind of husband you want to be.
Her friends and/or family do not share your values.

Her friends and relatives do not seem to like you.
Will not/does not talk about her family and friends.

Does not seem to treat her own family members and friends well.
Makes negative comments about or is rude to your family and friends.

Is very negative.
Is consistently disdainful of your interests and beliefs.

Is often talking negatively about others - how they are envious of her, how they want to drag her down, etc.
Does not show much interest in your life.

Knows you have a child, but shows no interest in your child.
She knowingly asks for a mahr far beyond your means to provide.

She and/or her relatives are too focused on your financial situation.
She and/or her relatives talk too much about money, material goods, and status.

Does not live or work where she says she does.
Details she has told you about herself do not add up.

Will not provide you with references.
Cannot legally marry you.

Compares you to other men.
You are the only one making an effort or changing your schedule to stay in touch.

Has had previous problems with drugs, alcohol and/or gambling.
Has been sexually promiscuous.

Is a workaholic.
Has a criminal past.

Will not send you additional photos.
Seems to be in a big hurry to get married.